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喜儿

z-far: I'm not quite sure what you mean when you say you want to release all of your balloons. Doesn't this mean you will have no friends leftover?

As to why we should expect four balloons to return, I honestly do not believe that the numbers matter. I simply received this message in an email from my friend, and I thought it'd be nice to share.

［此帖子已被 喜儿 在 2007-7-29 15:32:44 编辑过］

大眼妹

喜儿： Z-far 的见解要玲珑去消化了再演译，Get it？

z-far

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原文由 喜儿 发表于 2007-7-29 15:23:27 :
z-far: I'm not quite sure what you mean when you say you want to release all of your balloons. Doesn't this mean you will have no friends leftover?

As to why we should expect four balloons to return, I honestly do not believe that the numbers matter. I simply received this message in an email from my friend, and I thought it'd be nice to share.

［此帖子已被 喜儿 在 2007-7-29 15:32:44 编辑过］

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Ahhh..., it is a bit philosophical, on the notion of \"to-hold-on\", or to \"release\", with regard to the analogy of balloons, friends. There is no right or wrong, either way...

Releasing all friends/balloons, set them free: This may be a bit Western thinking. In the West, one often has many friends, but none of it are deep bondings. We hardly meet each other (once, or twice a year, due to circumstances). But when we meet, the bonding is assured. Like, when we were reunited on a trip in the wild nature, we would help each other to the utmost, spare no reservation, to help the one in trouble...Many times, this applies to the strangers we met on the trail. They are just like one of the free/drifting balloons (like us). Strangfers and old friends, we share, laugh, and bump each other for a kick in life...strangers become friends. Until we meet the next time, you know, the classic notion of friend is a bit obscure...hey, what is there to hold-on-to, until the next trip, where one will repeat the expereinces, friendships, and more, in a different settings...

Again, there is no right or wrong, either way, just a blog...

Thank you for sharring again.

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大眼妹

Z- far ：西方人与东方人的交友观念不一样，我们中国人受几千年文化熏陶，

较重友情亲情。而西方人比较独立，所以年老时,相对也比较凄凉，子女也沒有中國人那种亲情。

龙之弟

喜儿你几时过来纽约呵,老陕请你吃.

林小倩

纽约的龙少爷你好，几时返大陆见老同学呀？

金色田野

林小倩:

欢迎你!

你的报头照片很古典,是林徽音吗?

喜儿

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原文由 龙之弟 发表于 2007-8-2 10:16:50 :
喜儿你几时过来纽约呵,老陕请你吃.

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龙弟: 几解老陕请,你吴请呀？

喜儿

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原文由 z-far 发表于 2007-7-29 23:38:37 :

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原文由 喜儿 发表于 2007-7-29 15:23:27 :
z-far: I'm not quite sure what you mean when you say you want to release all of your balloons. Doesn't this mean you will have no friends leftover?

As to why we should expect four balloons to return, I honestly do not believe that the numbers matter. I simply received this message in an email from my friend, and I thought it'd be nice to share.

［此帖子已被 喜儿 在 2007-7-29 15:32:44 编辑过］

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Ahhh..., it is a bit philosophical, on the notion of \"to-hold-on\", or to \"release\", with regard to the analogy of balloons, friends. There is no right or wrong, either way...

Releasing all friends/balloons, set them free: This may be a bit Western thinking. In the West, one often has many friends, but none of it are deep bondings. We hardly meet each other (once, or twice a year, due to circumstances). But when we meet, the bonding is assured. Like, when we were reunited on a trip in the wild nature, we would help each other to the utmost, spare no reservation, to help the one in trouble...Many times, this applies to the strangers we met on the trail. They are just like one of the free/drifting balloons (like us). Strangfers and old friends, we share, laugh, and bump each other for a kick in life...strangers become friends. Until we meet the next time, you know, the classic notion of friend is a bit obscure...hey, what is there to hold-on-to, until the next trip, where one will repeat the expereinces, friendships, and more, in a different settings...

Again, there is no right or wrong, either way, just a blog...

Thank you for sharring again.

［此帖子已被 z-far 在 2007-7-29 23:43:35 编辑过］

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Z-FAR: your ideas and opinions are quite different from others. I always learn something new by reading your blogs. Thank you!

龙之弟

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原文由 喜儿 发表于 2007-8-3 1:36:12 :

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原文由 龙之弟 发表于 2007-8-2 10:16:50 :
喜儿你几时过来纽约呵,老陕请你吃.

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龙弟: 几解老陕请,你吴请呀？

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喜儿MM:老陕请呆也梗请啦!