黄龙飞歌曲<歌颂爱情>

天使黄龙飞

你需要什么,就寻找什么.

Look for waht you are in need of.

Trade with whatever you specialize.

你特有什么,就用什么来交易.

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婚姻是个利益小集团.

Marriage is a small group for interest.

It must function somewhat like a business.

它必须在某种程度上象盘生意那样运作.

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婚姻价值观,不能千篇一律.

For the value of marriage,

there is no one rule for all situations.

It is different for different people,

and for different times.

因人而异,因时而异.

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所谓价值观,

就是你认为什么东西价值多一些;

什么事情价值少一些.

The opinion on value is

that what you think have more value

and what other have less value.

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人必须学会放弃次要的

One must learn to give up the less important things

in exchange for the more-important ones.

以换取更重要的.

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有些个人素质可以容纳,有些不能.

Some personal qualities are compatible;

and other some are not.

And therefore

we must learn about beforehand.

所以,我们要事先了解清楚.

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Homeworks/作业题

用笔记本or电脑记下你的具体要求.

1.对方必须具备的.

2.对方不得具备的.

3.对方最好能具备的.

4.对方最好不具备的.

如果对方能满足全部四项的话,恭喜你拾到宝了!

如果你有空时不好好地准备的话,到时就很容易作出错误的选择.

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记住:爱情是情感上的需要;

Remember: Love is for emotional need

while marriage is more about living.

而婚姻则更多地是关于生活的.

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所以在选择对象时

And so when about to pick a partner

consider the matter of living first.

要把生活放在第一位.

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如果我要求对方必须通英文的话,

那就是一个不切实际的要求.

因为整个同学网都没有几个人能通英文.